Relatedly: Select photos where you can actually see what you look like.
Remember, the whole point of your photo is for someone to evaluate whether or not they want to sex you.
Photos may be the first thing people see, but once conversation starts flowing with your online dating matches, physical looks pale in comparison to the power of personality. "The best way I can sum it up is an Oscar Wilde quote," Schreffler explains."He said, 'Be yourself, everyone else is already taken,' and that's true of online dating.
You have to be genuine, and if you're really yourself, your voice comes through.
The obvious points of picking photos are to make them (1) flattering, and (2) accurate.