Sure there may be rare “exceptions to the rule” but we don’t know many cities full of attractive women with nothing to do (you couldn’t pay us enough to live in Nampa, Idaho). If you are an 8 figure man and spend $1K a month you’re not going to obtain any leverage out of your cash flow.
Find interesting hobbies and use them to meet the girls you like. It explains income, it explains dating and it even explains life experiences.
You can use money to elevate your relative status (owning expensive assets).
Please take a look at the graph below and you’ll understand why you should work hard in your 20s.
If you want to consistently compete at this level you need to generate The range gets much wider depending on who you are. Extremely attractive women have a ton of options so they will not date men who are “average”.