Having spent a good year getting reacquainted with myself and my charming set of idiosyncrasies, I recognized the occasion calling for me to stop avoiding male attention and to start practicing the art of social bullshitting again. If it comes let it come, if it stays let it stay, if it goes, well, let it go. If he responds intermittently to you, then yeah, you’re not the only girl in his contact list. Taken from the mouths of our wise elders, “Don’t make someone a priority who treats you like an option.” Seriously.
Be grateful for the opportunities provided, in whatever form they come.
Having survived the immature sagas of youth, you’re ready to hit your stride, relationship-wise.
Here’s a short guide to dating after your 30th birthday. You’re likely to have a better perspective of dating than you did in your infatuated teen years.
Just as life didn’t end when you turned 30, it won’t end at 40 or 50 either.