Wow, I have been getting so many messages and requests about Forgiveness this week I felt like I had to reach out in a more extended way. When you cut that off he’ll move on…and so will you. Client: He didn’t say it all at once, I had to drag it out of him and then he said ‘I don’t see us jumping the broom.’ Dr. Find your meaning within the life you have and become the person you were meant to be!
Dating during a separation can lead to healthy love – but only if you’re in the right place emotionally. Only date someone if you really want to be dating Many freshly separated people try to distract themselves from the hurt of a split by seeking a new partner; someone to have on hand because being alone is so unfamiliar.
But, if you are dating someone so that you don’t have to be alone, or because you want a replacement for your ex, it’s not particularly fair to them – or you.
This forgiveness is for you and you alone so that you can free your heart and mind to allow into your life every ounce of joy and happiness you and I both know you deserve! Here’s a question I had first thing this morning: Client: Question?? It’ll never progress to a relationship that’s exclusive but he’ll stick around as long as you let him have sex with you.
So if it’s natural to feel this way, you have to do something that feels unnatural to move past it. Forgiveness doesn’t mean what they did was ok but it does mean it’s ok for you to finally move on. When you give someone else this much power over your life it’s impossible to empower yourself. When a guy says he doesn’t see a future with you but still wants to sleep with you it means just that.
Indeed, even if you can’t wait to find new love, dating a separation is only going to lead to more confusion and hurt.